invisiblecircus Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Aside from the practicality, I can't see how any feedback given at an audition could be useful. If you've not been chosen then it's probably for a number of reasons, but listing them might make it seem as if there was nothing positive to say when that would rarely be the case. Additionally, as someone else mentioned, there would likely be hundreds of people trying to appeal the decision, saying that the reason given was unjust. When it comes to finals, the feedback for everyone who didn't get a place would be "We liked you, but we liked someone else more." The differences are so small at that stage. Everyone has a suitable physique, musicality, good feet etc and indeed, very many candidates who don't get a place go on to have successful careers after training elsewhere so a rejection doesn't mean someone isn't suitable for dance or even for that school. Don't forget that at finals, there are often interviews as well, so it could end up being that which secures a place for one candidate over another. Much of the time, it's probably difficult to put the reason for rejection into words. I have three friends who auditioned for the same school. Two were accepted and one wasn't. Although it was stated that no correspondence can be entered into in the event of unsuccessful applications, her teacher called the school and said that she had been upset not to get a place and asked if she could have feedback. The school said she just didn't have enough experience. This wasn't particularly useful, particularly as one of those who got a place was less experienced! The school's probably meant that overall, she just wasn't good enough. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pups_mum Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Whilst feedback is something I would personally appreciate, I can understand why the schools don't provide it. Aside from the logistic, as others have said, it could cause a lot of upset and trouble. Whilst there are many dancers and parents who would respond well to even negative feedback, one only has to look at some of the reactions to results at festivals to see that there are plenty of others who wouldn't. I can quite see why the schools wouldn't want to get into that kind of discussion. And actually lack of feedback isn't confined to the dance world. Way back in the mists of time I was rejected by my first two choices of university, much to the shock of all my teachers. They asked why but got the standard answer - no correspondence can be entered into. My 3rd choice turned out to be perfect for me anyway, so with hindsight maybe those first 2 admission tutors knew what they were doing! Sometimes I think we just have to trust their judgment, even if it's a mystery or not what we want to hear at the time. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa O`Brien Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Reading this thread has reminded me of a dance documentary that was on TV years ago. I can`t remember what exactly it was,but I don`t think it was ballet,although I could be mistaken. It was some sort of an audition for a professional contract. The male choreographer/artistic director was the main focus I think,throughout the whole programme. I remember it was a British documentary and the man was English. A girl walked into the studio to audition. It didn`t show her face. The camera stayed on this man. As soon as she walked through the doors,he said to her,"Sorry darling,your thighs are too large". She wasn`t even allowed to audition. Wonder if anyone else remembers it too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harwel Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 I am in the 'no' camp for feedback. I love the idea of positive, healthy feedback which is constructive and helpful and that all parties respond in a mature thoughtful way. Well I fear that is very far from what would be reality. Many of the decisions for a rejection will be physical and I for one don't want my child thinking their ears are too big or their ankles are too fat. I am sure much of be feedback would be of the 'not strong enough', 'not mature enough', 'not experienced enough' variety, which tells you nothing. The schools just don't have time for it to be meaningful. I can't believe the timetable of some of these schools and the ones in the audition, are most likely the most senior teachers of the school who are invariably involved in the internal assessments of the current students, and the internal competitions then their own teaching commitments and you would need at least 2/3 people's opinion for the decision to be more objective. Logistic nightmare and in the end of very little value. I like the phrase 'what someone else thinks of me, is none of my business'. And I think it applies here. If you love to dance, dance. If you want to put yourself in the hot seat and audition for professional careers, then you have to build self reliance and self belief. If someone's snap decision based on a small timeframe defines what you think of yourself and dictates how you move forward, then the sooner you find a different career the better. I see it that you have 3 chances to get into senior school 16,17, and 18. If you have to, take all 3 chances, get advice from anyone you can, from summer school teachers, from your regular teacher and associate teachers. If at the end of the day it's not for you you've given it everything. Only mentally tough people get to work in this profession. At the start it's all about the physical, in the end it's all about the mental. 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swanprincess Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Of the handful of schools i auditioned at, two, upon an email request, gave detailed feedback. One school rated each aspect of my technique from below average, average, to above average; the other school explained their numerical rating system, and gave significant, helpful feedback highlighting my strengths and weaknesses. I appreciate that not all schools may be able to give audition feedback, however I think that the feedback I received was a vital part of the audition process and aided my decision regarding "what next". 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katymac Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 DD has finally decided she is going to Performers College I'm relieved it's all over & I can start to make plans 21 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahw Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Great. She has done well. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harwel Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Oh thats fantastic Katymac! Well done to you both. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dance2013 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 (edited) Good choice by your dd katymac was she lucky enough to get a dada from Performers? I bet you are relieved the decision has been made at last Edited May 22, 2015 by Dance2013 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ParentTaxi Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Congratulations to her, KatyMac. I hope that she has a wonderful time. One of the oldest girls from DD's dance school is off there in the autumn - real and virtual worlds meeting is always rather odd! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katymac Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 So relieved she got to go Isn't it nice ParentTaxi - if you want to get in touch I can put her in touch with my DD? Or you can pass on DD's details? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Great news. Well done x 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debs Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 Hi all. I was just wondering if any of you lovely people had heard about any movement within the Rambert reserve list? x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post swanprincess Posted June 4, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted June 4, 2015 I GOT A PLACE AT BALLET WEST !!!!!!!!!!!!! 53 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waltzingmatilda Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 i have just switched on to the forum and I always read your posts as they are so great and read this!! Amazing!!!! You must be the happiest girl in the world and America in the summer too! so pleased for you. Congratulations. Totally fantastic. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moomin Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Congratulations!!!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluebell Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Congratulations Swanprincess! What fantastic news-I'm truly thrilled for you-I've been following your ballet journey on the forum-I was delighted to hear of your summer school success...but now-wow-you must be over the moon!! Well done you for not giving up on your dreams:) 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Busymum Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Fantastic news Swanprincess. Well done, I am really happy for you x 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kat09 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Such lovely news Swan Princess - more than thrilled for you xxx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Swanprincess, as a newcomer I have followed your posts with great interest as they are always a good read. You make a super role model for young dancers everywhere, and I hope when the time comes for auditions my own dd can share your courage and determination. Many many congratulations and every good wish for the next step in your dance career. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regattah Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Brilliant news SP! One of my DD's best friends (lovely girl) is also off there in September. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
afab Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Congratulations SP! Wonderful news! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hfbrew Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Oh, well done! I am sure I am not the only one feeling quite emotional for you SP! Who is joining me in a glass of something to celebrate? 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DancingDays Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Oh SP....what brilliant news! I know what you mean hfbrew....I think we all feel so much a part of SP's journey!I'll be raising a glass for you later! You must be over the moon....your hard work, dedication and continued enthusiasm has paid off for you. Ballet West is a great place Well done!!! 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildflowers Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 wonderful news SP, I think everyone on the forum will be raising a glass for you later! Congratulations xx 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiz Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 (edited) Oh, SP, I am more pleased than you can possibly know! That is absolutely brilliant! Edited June 4, 2015 by Fiz 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cornishprincess Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 well done xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna C Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Oh my goodness! How wonderful, Swanprincess! Congratulations! xxx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billyelliott Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 YESSSSSSSSSSS! Oh my goodness SP SO very happy for you !!!!! Now to live the dream xxxx And America as well - don't over do it now with the celebrations ????????✨ 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa O`Brien Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Swanprincess I am so happy for you,I really am. Absolutely fantastic news.!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Fantastic news! Congratulations! X Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joemill Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Amazing news, congratulations Swanprincess xxx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahw Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 FANTASTIC NEWS. Absolutely the most deserved place ever - tears in my eyes.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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