Adagio123 Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 (edited) My DD has accepted a place to start in year 7. I am hoping we will get a list of what is needed from the school but if anyone has any tips for a first timer at boarding school, it would be greatly appreciated! Edited March 31, 2023 by Adagio123 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
margarite Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Congratulations to your DC. Firstly try and talk to existing parents at the school to see if there are any items on the uniform list that are optional or never used. We bought a scarf and coat for Hammond that never saw the light of day 🙄. A shower caddy is a great buy for storage and taking shampoo/ shower gel etc in and out of the communal showers. Start labelling items as soon as you buy them is my best tip as otherwise you’ll have a stressful couple of days in late August … 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meadowblythe Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Photos in frames - start taking and gathering now. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mummy twinkle toes Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 You can also get duvets and blankets with your photos on. These can be a nice addition. Here is one site that offers: https://www.photoblanket.co.uk/personalised-duvet-cover?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=19885558053&utm_adgroup=&utm_term=&utm_content=&utm_matchtype=&gclid=Cj0KCQjwiZqhBhCJARIsACHHEH_uoO6ycb6dLp3sPLDG_h7x2CoE-Av6t1vBkBeb0agTdHPeb8HT6hEaAq5mEALw_wcB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunrise81 Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Mattress topper 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lifeafterballet Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 A hanging shoe tidy. They have a lot of shoes 🤣 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farawaydancer Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Fewer ‘home’ clothes than you imagine, more fairy lights than you think. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lifeafterballet Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 A burner phone. My Dd never had one but a lot of children did. There are positives and negatives to restricting contact time with family and friends. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
batmanballetshoes Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Flip flops for the shower..... essential 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhatsThePointe Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Laundry pen and/or stick on labels as even if the school specifies labels must be sewn it, they're useful for non clothes things like books, pencil cases etc. If it's not permanently attached to your child's body, label it 🤣 Mattress topper definitely. Over door hooks to give extra hanging space for coats, bags, dressing gowns etc. Laundry liquid in case they want to wash small items in the sink. Card reader if they have a bank card! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ballet Dreams Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 (edited) Definitely get your child their own bank card if they don’t already have one, it makes it so much easier to transfer money quickly if you need to, ie if they need money on trips out service stations etc. Or if they run out of something they need. Edited March 31, 2023 by Ballet Dreams 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunrise81 Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 (edited) Get yourself a subscription to Amazon Prime 🤣🤣🤣 Edited March 31, 2023 by sunrise81 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
margarite Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 22 minutes ago, sunrise81 said: Get yourself a subscription to Amazon Prime 🤣🤣🤣 YES! What did parents do before this existed?! Saved the day on so many occasions 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adagio123 Posted March 31, 2023 Author Share Posted March 31, 2023 8 hours ago, Mummy twinkle toes said: You can also get duvets and blankets with your photos on. These can be a nice addition. Here is one site that offers: https://www.photoblanket.co.uk/personalised-duvet-cover?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=19885558053&utm_adgroup=&utm_term=&utm_content=&utm_matchtype=&gclid=Cj0KCQjwiZqhBhCJARIsACHHEH_uoO6ycb6dLp3sPLDG_h7x2CoE-Av6t1vBkBeb0agTdHPeb8HT6hEaAq5mEALw_wcB Great idea. Thank you 😊 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adagio123 Posted March 31, 2023 Author Share Posted March 31, 2023 5 hours ago, Farawaydancer said: Fewer ‘home’ clothes than you imagine, more fairy lights than you think. 😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adagio123 Posted March 31, 2023 Author Share Posted March 31, 2023 4 hours ago, batmanballetshoes said: Flip flops for the shower..... essential Ooh yes good idea. Verucca city 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adagio123 Posted March 31, 2023 Author Share Posted March 31, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, sunrise81 said: Get yourself a subscription to Amazon Prime 🤣🤣🤣 Is this for weekends/down time? Ir do you mean TV or for shopping? Edited March 31, 2023 by Adagio123 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
margarite Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 27 minutes ago, Adagio123 said: Is this for weekends/down time? Ir do you mean TV or for shopping? Emergency last-minute stuff - as they only get to the shops at the weekend - replacement water bottles, toe spacers, ballet tights, friends birthday gifts and lots of random stuff - bunny ears for the Easter party for example 🙄 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taxi4ballet Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 When it comes to toiletries, some places don't like you to use aerosols, so roll-on or stick antiperspirant is better, as is the spritz type hairspray. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adagio123 Posted March 31, 2023 Author Share Posted March 31, 2023 Just now, taxi4ballet said: When it comes to toiletries, some places don't like you to use aerosols, so roll-on or stick antiperspirant is better, as is the spritz type hairspray. Yes at the finals we got a tour and they said no aerosols as the fire alarm system is sensitive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DancingShoes Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Labelling stamp. Best money I ever spent. https://stamptastic.co.uk/collections/home-page/products/basic-bundle?gclid=Cj0KCQjwiZqhBhCJARIsACHHEH-5HgvUTRN62gVQORr_XIChu10eR6xnsTbXbEyA3-FeyCQKepvdNFAaAi-kEALw_wcB#/ 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lifeafterballet Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Earplugs. Or AirPods to listen to music etc for those nights when you can’t sleep. My Dd just couldn’t turn off and sleep when she started in year 7. Sensory overload 🤯 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
along for the ride mum Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 100% a nice memory foam mattress topper! also, we found a few of those large zip-up laundry bags really useful ( I don’t know what they’re really called but the type of the you see for sale on a market, huge rectangular plastic bags with colourful designs) - great for packing everything into when you have to transfer all belongings to and fro each term. We had a separate ‘school’ duvet and pillows. Actually if I’m honest we ended up with several- somehow the duvet always seemed to be the one thing that got left at home each holiday 🤣 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BisforBallet Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Storage boxes, hangers, towels, things to do in downtime, 🙈 nit comb, sliders for shower 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balletbean Posted April 1, 2023 Share Posted April 1, 2023 A fleecy blanket/throw not just for the bed but one that can be used to cuddle up in, great for watching tv or having a quiet moment. There are some great companies that offer personalised photo blankets. Perfect gift for those moving away from home. No matter how old they maybe. 🥰 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumtotwoballerinas Posted April 1, 2023 Share Posted April 1, 2023 On 31/03/2023 at 14:29, sunrise81 said: Get yourself a subscription to Amazon Prime 🤣🤣🤣 We would be lost without Amazon - when they announce 2 days after exeat that they've run out of shampoo, or their trainers are dead- absolute life saver !! 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwirlyWhirly Posted April 7, 2023 Share Posted April 7, 2023 @Adagio123Congratulations to your DD! Not exactly a purchase, but with 5 months to go (and depending on existing skill levels of your DD), I'd recommend working on some life skills with them! E.g. changing sheets/ duvet; sorting laundry so your lovely, brightly coloured uniform tracksuit etc. doesn't go in with whites; sewing own elastics/ pointe shoes; money/ time management; how to take brief notes from classes (written or electronic). A lot of stress can be alleviated for both DD and parent of DD if they can solve some seemingly trivial daily problems with confidence- houseparents have many kids to look after so aren't always there just when they have a panic on. Phonecalls at 8am asking, "Where are my socks?" from hundreds of miles away - I've been there! Also, if they are good at these things, then helping others in their dorm is a lovely, friendly thing to do! 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farawaydancer Posted April 7, 2023 Share Posted April 7, 2023 31 minutes ago, TwirlyWhirly said: @Adagio123Congratulations to your DD! Not exactly a purchase, but with 5 months to go (and depending on existing skill levels of your DD), I'd recommend working on some life skills with them! E.g. changing sheets/ duvet; sorting laundry so your lovely, brightly coloured uniform tracksuit etc. doesn't go in with whites; sewing own elastics/ pointe shoes; money/ time management; how to take brief notes from classes (written or electronic). A lot of stress can be alleviated for both DD and parent of DD if they can solve some seemingly trivial daily problems with confidence- houseparents have many kids to look after so aren't always there just when they have a panic on. Phonecalls at 8am asking, "Where are my socks?" from hundreds of miles away - I've been there! Also, if they are good at these things, then helping others in their dorm is a lovely, friendly thing to do! All of this. If they have confidence in their own ability to cope with the everyday stuff it makes boarding life so much easier to deal with. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sophoife Posted April 7, 2023 Share Posted April 7, 2023 All of this. I have a niece who refused to learn basic skills before going to non-vocational boarding school. She was asked to leave her dormitory and therefore the school after two months as she continued to wear stinky dirty clothes instead of washing them. Oh, she bought new undies weekly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lifeafterballet Posted April 7, 2023 Share Posted April 7, 2023 1 hour ago, TwirlyWhirly said:, I'd recommend working on some life skills with them! E.g. changing sheets/ duvet; sorting laundry so your lovely, brightly coloured uniform tracksuit etc. doesn't go in with whites; sewing own elastics/ pointe shoes; money/ time management; how to take brief notes from classes (written or electronic). It was some years ago but at Elmhurst there was no separation of white and coloured laundry, it all went in together 🤣 So avoid the white or paler colours of underwear etc. It just all comes back grey 😒 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alison Posted April 7, 2023 Share Posted April 7, 2023 12 hours ago, Sophoife said: All of this. I have a niece who refused to learn basic skills before going to non-vocational boarding school. She was asked to leave her dormitory and therefore the school after two months as she continued to wear stinky dirty clothes instead of washing them. Oh, she bought new undies weekly. 😲 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peanut68 Posted April 7, 2023 Share Posted April 7, 2023 (edited) Big bath towels with loops on (or add a loop) to hang on hooks. If radiator in room an over radiator airer to put said towels on to dry. Many seem to take plastic 3 or 4 drawer units like a mini chest of drawers…. Ideal for undies/dance kit/school books - whatever really. Also under bed storage boxes with lids - the ones with a hinged open half at tone lid on wheels really work well to store bedding or shoes or school books - do wait til there to ensure buy ones of right height to go under bed… Edited April 7, 2023 by Peanut68 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balletbean Posted April 8, 2023 Share Posted April 8, 2023 On 07/04/2023 at 09:38, TwirlyWhirly said: @Adagio123Congratulations to your DD! Not exactly a purchase, but with 5 months to go (and depending on existing skill levels of your DD), I'd recommend working on some life skills with them! E.g. changing sheets/ duvet; sorting laundry so your lovely, brightly coloured uniform tracksuit etc. doesn't go in with whites; sewing own elastics/ pointe shoes; money/ time management; how to take brief notes from classes (written or electronic). A lot of stress can be alleviated for both DD and parent of DD if they can solve some seemingly trivial daily problems with confidence- houseparents have many kids to look after so aren't always there just when they have a panic on. Phonecalls at 8am asking, "Where are my socks?" from hundreds of miles away - I've been there! Also, if they are good at these things, then helping others in their dorm is a lovely, friendly thing to do! Also little life (girlie) hacks that you can think of for that time of the month. Some girls may not have even started when they head off to LS. Anything from overnight and other moments that happen😉🧺. Which I’m sure we all understand and appreciate but living away from home when they happen can be somewhat overwhelming for the girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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