I am sorry that I didn't realize that well groomed these days requires more than neat / solid ballet bun, clean / simple leotard, clean socks / tights and clean ballet shoes. I learn something new every day. I am sure that kids ultimately get judged on their potential, ability and skills. I also consider myself fortunate that my DD's ballet school (vocational ballet school in London that goes up to the age of 18) doesn't expect her to be a walking advert. I have no problem with competition. I personally medaled at the top level in international competitions myself but thank you for sharing your concern.