Dancingmuppet that is exactly how I feel after going away to vocational school at 11.
I chose to go, my Mum had no say!! Ha ha
I loved school, even with bouts of homesickness and I would wholeheartedly support any child of mine to do the same if THEY chose to go.
My 9 year old daughter loves dancing and is sure it is the career for her, however, she is not sure at the moment that she would like to board so it doesn't look like she will be going at 11. I knew from the age of 5 that I was going. She thinks I am strong and can cope with anything because I went to boarding school. Bless her heart! I would love her to have the joy of school that I did though.
I have never felt abandoned and any child that has been accepted and gone to vocational school is a child who really wants it for themselves. I hope no parent feels bad after reading Ribbons post.