Lifeafterballet Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 We love rugby and both our vocational ballet children played. The comparisons are interesting in the success rates but the journey is so different. Ballet could learn a lot from their training, support and passion. Worth a listen 👂 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pups_mum Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 It's very interesting. I have often mused on the differences between my DD's dance journey and her brother's sporting pursuits. I could write pages on the subject (probably previously have in fact) but I won't bore you all! I think there are intrinsic differences between ballet and sport that mean that exactly the same models would never work equally well for both, but I do think there is a lot to be learned, particularly from sports science and from the way a number of sports structure their youth programmes, both their talent development pathways and more recreational programmes. I also think that the dance world would do well to look at the skeletons that have been found in a number of sporting cupboards and learn from what's happened there. No system is perfect, but I do think that sports, at least the ones we're involved with, have modernised rather more successfully than dance so far and there is quite a lot that could transfer well. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peanut68 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 (edited) My son added ballet & jazz dance alongside his rugby trading & I'm proud to say - despite some teasing from rugby boys - never hid fact he enjoyed both! Both sadly came to a fairly natural end….maybe hobbies to reignite in the future? One thing I would point out of interest though… just as there are nightmare ‘Dance Moms’ (& Dads) equally the parents & politics at junior rugby can have those familiar types; just as pushy, nasty, bitchy, back biting & subversive to the sport!!! It’s the parents (& especially when they are part of the coaching team etc…)who so often undermine the laudable RFU rugby ‘TREDS’ core values (Teamwork, Respect, Enjoyment, Discipline, Sportsmanship) Ah, how I wish those values felt the norm for kids, parents & teachers/coaches in Ballet & Rugby!! It’s the usual case of a minority spoiling things for the majority….& of course can lead to talent & participants (& thus support including financial) being lost to both. Edited November 13, 2021 by Peanut68 Typo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJH Posted November 14, 2021 Share Posted November 14, 2021 7 hours ago, Peanut68 said: My son added ballet & jazz dance alongside his rugby trading & I'm proud to say - despite some teasing from rugby boys - never hid fact he enjoyed both! Both sadly came to a fairly natural end….maybe hobbies to reignite in the future? One thing I would point out of interest though… just as there are nightmare ‘Dance Moms’ (& Dads) equally the parents & politics at junior rugby can have those familiar types; just as pushy, nasty, bitchy, back biting & subversive to the sport!!! It’s the parents (& especially when they are part of the coaching team etc…)who so often undermine the laudable RFU rugby ‘TREDS’ core values (Teamwork, Respect, Enjoyment, Discipline, Sportsmanship) Ah, how I wish those values felt the norm for kids, parents & teachers/coaches in Ballet & Rugby!! It’s the usual case of a minority spoiling things for the majority….& of course can lead to talent & participants (& thus support including financial) being lost to both. and in sailing the 'Optimist (a class of junior dinghy ) Dad ' is a running joke / steroetype / meme like the dance mum 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pas de Quatre Posted November 14, 2021 Share Posted November 14, 2021 And of course for generations Pony Club Mum has been a thing! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peanut68 Posted November 14, 2021 Share Posted November 14, 2021 Ever get the feeling it’s ‘all our fault’??? 🤔 I do look at the families who had kids doing zero extra curriculum activities & wonder a) how much better off financially they were/are & b) did it negatively or positively impact their kids for future higher education/career prospects/earning potential/life skills/family relationships/ physical & mental health & - most importantly - personal happiness....??? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJH Posted November 14, 2021 Share Posted November 14, 2021 5 hours ago, Pas de Quatre said: And of course for generations Pony Club Mum has been a thing! complete with Thelwell illustrations? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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