I used to always do the releve 'wrong'. Then I attended extra classes with another school and they taught me to 'snatch' more, not just a 'rise'. This is because when you do partner work and the boy spins you around then it would be harder for him if your body weight isn't central. I found it difficult to control for a number of weeks but now I can do it and it is a lot easier and I can balance for longer. You just have to go backwards before you go forwards for a bit.