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1 hour ago, Kerfuffle said:

For those in the south west I recommend Bristol Russian Ballet School and their Youth Ballet at weekends, plus intensives at Easter and Summer. This was where my DD trained for 2 years. 

I can completely recommend Bristol Russian Ballet School. My Dd did Summer and Easter intensives with them whilst at vocational school. After leaving Elmhurst after her GCSEs she danced with them for two years before starting Uni and fell in love with ballet again.

She wishes she had done this instead of the vocational route!

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Well done to your Dd - it is such a hard decision to stop vocational training, there are lots of what ifs...  My daughter stopped vocational training for similar reasons after her GCSEs,  did A levels and is now in her 1st Year at Uni. She danced locally whilst doing her A levels as well as doing A level dance. She loved doing the local classes without the constant pressure. She dances at Uni in the dance society and has even stepped in and taken a few classes. 

Dd attended vocational school. There were lots of ups and downs -  she left after GCSEs and is now at University, after wanting a secure career. Do also consider the distance from home, extra expense of nights in hotels for school performances etc... fuel, hours spent on the motorway until they are ready to take the train. 

9 minutes ago, SJBallet said:

What worries me when reading these posts from the point of view of a parent with a child about to embark on this journey, the institutions that you have all very sadly had bad experiences at remain anonymous so how do us new parents know which to enter with caution? 

We were a bit 'rabbit in the headlights' when Dd started vocational school.  Every dc will have a different experience at any vocational school.  Go in with an open mind and don't be afraid to question and intervene if things aren't right, and move schools if necessary. Dd had some great times but also some lows. 

13 minutes ago, Harwel said:

I have just been drawn down the rabbit hole of this thread - I rarely visit here anymore since my DS left the ballet world (I thank God everyday for that day!).  I feel the anxiety of the new parents just entering this world who want to try to explain everything, find a reason for everything, justify everything.  I think you are just finding out that NOTHING about the ballet world has anything to do about a level playing field (I genuinely don’t think anything in this world does).

My Dd stepped off this mad rollercoaster at the end of Year 11 she had places at 3 Upper Schools. It is not a level playing field at all...... I do wish my Dd had stayed at home until 16 in a nurturing environment.  For those of you starting the vocational school journey be honest about how it is going and keep talking.  We sat down each summer and discussed if this was what Dd still wanted.  It is very easy to get caught up in it all, and not want to get left behind. Many of Dd's peers were doing multiple Summer Schools... Easter Courses ... private lessons.... extra associate classes on top of vocational school to try and get noticed - it doesn't come cheap.

4 hours ago, Farawaydancer said:

 
And then there’s the mysterious ‘miscellaneous’ items that are added each term, that no one ever explains! 🤣

Don't forget to factor in the time spent travelling/petrol if you dc comes home for the weekend. Ours was a 5 round trip until Dd was confident enough to do the train. Many hours spent on the mway!  Then the hotels for shows and Xmas performances. As soon as we had confirmation of these dates for I would book hotel accommodation to get the best rates. There are many hidden extras on this journey. 

On 22/01/2021 at 16:16, cotes du rhone ! said:

There are so many informative threads and discussions on this forum about getting into vocational training but very little shared experiences on completing or leaving training. I want to hear about those Dds and Dss that chose different paths. So very few who train vocationally actually have a career in ballet. 2020/21 has been particularly sad 😢 but there must be some positive stories to share. 

Thank you for sharing...such an important discussion. I am so pleased that your DD has a place at University.  My DD left vocational school at the end of Year 11 she had been offered places at 3 Upper Schools, but she wasn't happy. She was stressed and had self doubt. She was told to be more confident but was never given the encouragement or the opportunities. She was always told she had the most amazing feet and lines.  She is now in Year 13 doing her A levels and has offers to study at University and is excited for the future.  At vocational school, you are so caught up on the ballet roller coaster.... what Upper School to apply to and audition for .... what summer school to do .... what workshops, add in a few one to one lessons to correct technique so that your DC is doing the same as their peers as well as hoping to be seen by various ADs (all at great expense on top of school fees). You don't have time to reflect..... 

My DD did go through a stage of 'what if' she had carried on at vocational school but realised that there is life after ballet and there are lots of other opportunities. She started Sixth Form with maturity and confidence and lots of transferable skills and discipline to work hard - she is happy and confident and has found herself. To get a ballet contract you are competing with the best from around the world - my DD is dancing locally and enjoying it without the constant pressure. Would we do it again - probably not. There are so many excellent associate opportunities your DC can do now as an alternative to the 11 -16 Vocational route. 

Totally agree!  My Dd spent 5 years at vocational school with places at 2 Upper Schools.  She worked really hard, was stressed and realised it wasn't the Disney Movie... the thought of 3 years at Upper School with massive international competition for few jobs, she had reached her level.  She is now happily doing A levels and dancing with amazing local teachers. She has her sparkle back and loving dancing without the insane pressure of trying to be the next soloist with the Royal Ballet.  It is only when you step off this emotional roller coaster that you can actually see things for what they are... she has learnt so many skills along the way.

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Check out the uniform list on the school website I'll see if I can post a link

Good idea - sorry to confuse everyone - my DD is in Year 7 -they all have the same canvas shoes.  It is probably worth checking on induction day.

All students have to have the same canvas ballet shoes from the dance supplier - it is just the tap and jazz shoes that you can bring from home    

On induction day the dance supplier will be there and your DD will be fitted for the uniform. We came away with lots of bags!!  Don't worry - if your DD has a growth spurt over the holidays, she will be able to exchange it at the beginning of term.  I waited until the last week of the holidays before I labelled any uniform.  If you can buy a secondhand blazer and skirt you will save lots of money - they don't wear it a lot. I got one last year via ballet forum  Likewise if your DD has jazz and tap shoes that still fit her she can take those to school. Enjoy induction day!!

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I am looking for the Elmhurst formal uniform for my DD starting Year 7 in Sept.  Please message me.

Thanks

I have a sad DD who got a no from WL final.  It makes it harder as her friend got in.  We are going to do some fun non dancing things.......and wait for Elmhurst Final results.