My DD has just turned 16 and is new to boarding, vocational school and is miles from home. Leaving her was one of the toughest things I've ever had to do. However, when I'm struggling I remind myself that she has worked so hard for this for so many years and I know she is living her dream! She had a wobbly first couple of days and is now settling in well but is very keen for a trip home. My very ltttle 10 year old son has travelled worldwide with football commitments and the advice we have always been given is not to go home for at least three weeks. He isn't even allowed a telephone call when he's away! We are not being that strict with DD, I couldn't stand it ! I just keep everything really positive on the phone. Face Time is brilliant as I can see that she is genuinely happy and not just trying to make me feel better We just need to remind all our talented and hard working young people why they are there and no matter where they might be now or in the future, home is always home and family is always there for them.
I'm sure the weeks will fly by and it will be exeat and half term before we know it! Good luck everyone.