So, my daughter goes to 2 schools, one bbo graded syllabus where she has consistently achieved high end marks like distinctions in exams, and the other vocational. This term her vocational teacher gave us a mixed assessment. She says that although DD has a fantastic physique for dance, that she is lazy in class and doesn't give it her all. I've spoken to DD and she still says she loves dance but I'm wondering if it's just "that age" (she's almost 10 and has already hit puberty). She needs to continue at the vocational school as the other does not offer enough classes at her level. Should I make her stick at it or am I being selfish??