Ballet4Boyz Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 A few forum members have very kindly offered their advice re attending the Hammond, and as my DS is about to join year 7 - I thought it best to ask all of you (in the know) rather than aim lots of questions at any one person ???? Here goes : • do the boarding houses have Wifi ? • is it advisable to take a small laundry basket for his room? - not sure how laundry is collected. • are iPads / phones collected in at a certain time in the evening ? • do all boarders go home/leave the boarding houses on exeat weekends - or do some stay ? • are the children allowed their own snacks/tuck etc ? The list could go on ........ Sorry !! but DS has been asking a few questions & thought it would be nice to find a few answers for him (& me) and perhaps other slightly daunted DC & their parents. Thanks to anyone who can offer some pointers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balletmum20 Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 Yes I have very much the same questions On exeat what time do we pick them up, and from the school or boarding houses? What time do they have to be back on the Sunday? What happens if children are unwell? I'm sure there are 100 more questions x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 Dd is a day student but boards during production weeks. Wi-fi. - no Different items are collected & laundered on different days eg dancewear daily, academic uniform one day etc. I think most use a bag Phones - were supposed to be collected but impossible to police with the multiple devices kids now have. Supposed to be turned off at a certain time (I set parental time controls) Everyone has to leave during exeat. Limited space to store tuck - the kids buy loads on Saturday shopping trips! I used to send a graze box 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 After exeat they have to return between 5.30pm & 7pm 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ballet4Boyz Posted May 20, 2016 Author Share Posted May 20, 2016 Thanks Pictures ........that's all really helpful !! DS particularly likes the sound of shopping trips !! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 They are allowed to go shoppers my in Chester on Saturday afternoons. The year 7s have to be accompanied & in a larger group. They are allowed to go in smaller groups as they move up the school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ballet4Boyz Posted May 20, 2016 Author Share Posted May 20, 2016 Is it a good idea to invest in an extra-loud alarm clock ? ....... or do the house-parents help rouse them. Last question for now Thanks v much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quest Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 Don't worry about personal alarms, there is a very loud house alarm that rings throughout the boarding house at 7am every morning ???? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ballet4Boyz Posted May 20, 2016 Author Share Posted May 20, 2016 Ha !!! Bet they love that ???????????? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karen Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 Just a few more thoughts.. Laundry bags or tubs or baskets are fine- just make sure ALL items are clearly named (and they may still vanish for a while but generally come bsbk!) Laundry may not be treated with as much care as at home, so be prepared to take home hand wash items and remind dc to put jeans for example into laundry inside out so patchy fading does not occur. Exeat starts at end of school on Fri, but taking suitcases etc into school is not always welcome so it's preferred for parents to go to bh and wait for children's return on bus - sometimes not till 4.30pm and then leave from there. Return on Sun from 5.00pm, although slightly earlier return can be agreed depending on personal circumstances. No one stays on exeat weekends but some children go to friends and many parents lift share. Older students go home alone on train and if you have an older person heading your way, they may be prepared to support your dc on the journey. Dd did not do this till yr 9 but now will happily use the train or plane unaccompanied. Phones etc are supposed to be handed in but without dropping anyone in it, it is very easy to get around this!! I don't hear of anyone not making it to school so getting had up and out must be effective (although Dd hates early 8.00am adv 2 ballet classes!!) We find boarding staff helpful and supportive as long as Dd is not too difficult! And, regarding what you would like to do at weekends, if you don't ask, you don't get! As your dc gets older a debit card and just eat account will be useful. Feel free to pm if I can help any more???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boogalou Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 Can I ask, on the first day back of each term/half term are they expected back that morning or do they go back to the bh the evening before ready to start the next morning? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quest Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 They go back to the BH the evening before term starts. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sadie123 Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 Thank you all for this its very helpful. My DS is starting in September and I am also having lost of questions from him. At the moment he struggles to find the wash bin let alone seperate his colours and turn jeans inside out! I can imagine the Yr 7 dorm being chaos those first few weeks ????. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ebony Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 my dd has been known to sleep through that very loud alarm . a debit card is very useful i would say. rbs do one for age 11 to 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lou78 Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 My DD also starting in yr 7 from September - she is extremely tidy and likes things in their place . Her room at home is immaculate , though I have said not everyone will be as tidy as her and how will she cope with that ? She has said well as long as my area is tidy it doesn't bother me about everyone else's ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ballet4Boyz Posted May 21, 2016 Author Share Posted May 21, 2016 ........yes thankyou for all the great replies - really informative & helps to feel a little prepared. This may be a stupid question (sorry) but regarding the exeat weekends ... do their rooms have to be completely emptied , in other words - do we have to take everything home every time ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 No, that would be impossible for the students going home on the train for example. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 No ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 Lou - I would prepare your dd for the fact it is likely to be very messy & stuff gets moved about. She might get a bit indignant with the other less tidy children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boogalou Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 You say phones are handed in on an evening, but do the children have enough opportunities to ring home when they want before then. I know when my dd goes to summer schools just being able to hear my voice gives her reassurance although I wwould be very happy for her to get over that! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lou78 Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 Yes Pictures I've already deliberately started moving things and messing her room up a bit - I blame DH for this as he is the same infact they are identical in a lot of ways xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 Unfortunately for us (not dd!) she is the type of child who is perfectly happy to go incommunicado for extreme lengths of time despite constant texts from us asking if she's still alive! They finish class at 6pm & then go for tea. The bus arrives at 6.30 to take them back to the boarding house (10 ish min journey). They have to do prep (homework) trying to remember back to year 7 there was about a 40 min supervised prep time but it depends which boarding house you are in & I think they are expected to be more independent as they go further up the school. Bedtime is 9pm for year 7 & phone calls have to be finished 15 mins prior. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 But kids being kids I'm sure they get aroun the rules at times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 & as I said earlier dd is a day student so her experience of boarding will be slightly different though after dh's car accident she biarded for approx 2 months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 On the website by the way under the information tab is a link to policies Amongst all the CP/bullying/statutory policy stuff there is a copy of last year's Parents Guide with a lot of info in. You will be given a printed copy in due course. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eowyn Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 (edited) With regards phones this has been the most difficult part for us. The Year 7s are not allowed their phones until they finish prep at around 8pm. Bedtime is at 8.45pm which is when they hand their phones in. So you only have a 45 minute window in which they can call you. They do not get their phones in the morning and are not allowed to take them to school, so for the first few weeks I found it extremely hard having to wait all day until I could speak to my dd, especially when I knew she was very homesick. As for the dorms my dd is extremely tidy as well but she seems to cope very well living with other girls who are less so and just keeps her own area tidy and organised. One piece of advice I would give is do not pack too much. They really do get a very small allocated space and very little storage. They are in uniform all week anyway, pyjamas as soon as they get in and so only need clothes for Saturday afternoons and Sunday. I ended up bringing a lot of the clothes we packed for dd home again when I saw the size of her wardrobe! Edited May 21, 2016 by Eowyn 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eowyn Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 Just to also say you will get a pack in the post very soon with all of the boarding information, which will answer most of these questions. Good luck it's a very exciting and yet apprehensive time! x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ballet4Boyz Posted May 21, 2016 Author Share Posted May 21, 2016 Thanks Pictures - that's quite a tight time frame for them in the evening then - considering they'll need to fit showers in etc ? I won't hold my breath for my DS making regular phone calls - but hold the feeling that "no news is good news" I take it from your post that they eat lunch & tea at school then , do they have breakfast at school as well ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ballet4Boyz Posted May 21, 2016 Author Share Posted May 21, 2016 Thanks Eowyn - wow, time is tight on an evening !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eowyn Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 They have breakfast in the boarding house as soon as they get up. Lunch and Tea are at school :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picturesinthefirelight Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 No,breakfast is at the boarding house. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ballet4Boyz Posted May 21, 2016 Author Share Posted May 21, 2016 (edited) Thanks again - can answer some of his questions now !! ???????? Edited May 21, 2016 by Ballet4Boyz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boogalou Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 (edited) Thanks for the info, our dd would be starting in yr9(still deciding whether to accept bursary and live like paupers!) so that will be a challenge in itself as friendship groups will already be formed and dd is a quiet child until she knows people well. Has anyone else's dc started in yr9? Edited May 21, 2016 by Boogalou Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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